Woamn and there husbands

Woman who do everything there husbands say and want drives me crazy! Example: I will have to ask my husband if we can start using a sippy cup for our child.... Are you kidding me? How could you not make that decision on your own? I can't co-sleep with my child since my husband doesn't like it. I want to breastfeed but not sure since my husband says they are his breast's. I mean woman  you can make a choice in your marriage. How can you go so much with what he thinks and not go with what you want? I just couldn't do that in my life. If I feel we need to get the kids sippy cups or clothes I don't ask hubby "hey what do you think?" Yes of course like big issues like where should we go on vacation or what health insurance plan we should go with, I ask him what he wants to do. That is something I could not make the choice on my own since that is a big "family" choice. But a freakin sippy cup or to breastfeeding isn't a life changing choice. Maybe I am wrong on the breastfeeding since I do it myself. I didn't ask my husband though when I had my first son. I just did it and stuck with it. Get a back bone and state what you would like. I call those wives copy cats. They copy what there spouse only wants and never have there own choices.
I was at Target today in line and over heard a couple talking. The husband asked if the wife had called in his prescription. She replied yes but he needed a refill. So the husbands well have you called them back to see if they got it yet? They had 3 children. Maybe she was busy being a mother or has a job. Why couldn't he do it himself if he was getting annoyed? She says I have been busy. He says well maybe if you stopped having children then you could have done it. WTH? She just put her head down and was quiet the rest of the check out. Do men expect woman to do everything for them? I know my husband expects a lot from me but if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen. Plus he knows I am taking care of his kids all day. Men who expect not to do for themselves in a marriage drive me crazy too! That is a push over wife.
There are wives who expect there man to be with them 24/7. That is my sister in law. She thinks my brother should be with her at all times and never leave the house. My brother is not like that though. He likes playing football with his friends on the weekend and also sings in a group. She knew that before they even started dating. Granted they have 4 kids(only 1 is his) and he should help out with the house and kids BUT he should be able to get out for a couple of hours here and there. Now there are the a*hole men who like to go out all the time. That crap drives me crazy. Why be married and have kids then. No child should be put 2nd like that while there mother or father is out all the time. I call that a clingy wife!

Planning

I have 4 children... 3 boys and one little girl. My little girl will be turning 1 in 4 weeks. I am such a planner. I just bought her birthday outfit for her day, her outfit for her smash cake and her outfit for her 1 year pictures. When you have a little girl you also have to buy headbands!! I just spent $20.00 on headbands for 2 of the outfits. It is crazy how much headbands are. I wish I could make them but I have 0% of craftiness in me! So Etsy is getting my children's college fund. ;)

I love taking pictures and I hope we get some really cute ones. I need to paint some letters O N E for her props. I also still need to buy some sheets and pink and purple balloons. I have been on pinterst( another mom waster of time) and I love so many of the outdoor photo shoots. While I was pregnant with Miss A I took some really nice pictures of in the desert. I think we will go to the same spot and get all the kids like we did last time.

 This is how I want to do her smash cake pictures. With her in a ruffled hot pink bottom, headband and pearls.

 I love this picture idea!!